Most of the girls prefer to befriend with boys not because they like them or anything but because they are more comfortable to be with. Some people may think they are sluts or whatever they call it. But then the perspective of the people nowadays was totally whack. There's nothing wrong about having friends with opposite sex. It's just that there are some girls who are really comfortable with guys.
If you have a boy best friend, you'll be contented even if you are not in a relationship (BOYFRIEND)
You're contented by the love that your best friend gives to you. Even if you don't do sweet things or lovey-dovey things, you are still satisfied just to be with them.
Having a boy best friend is really really COOL!! You know, you feel proud because it's an achievement for you because it's not easy to befriends with boys because they are choosy especially when it comes to girls. They want girls that lend ears for them when they have problems. They want girls who are not sensitive and selfish and many more. And it's an achievement really that you pass their test.
Boys are not judgmental unlike girls. Boys listen first before talking or giving some advice. Unlike girls, they are fond of judging you and instead of having comfort you'll be more hurt because of what they say. Boys are good at giving comfort, and even if they don't give advice; you'll be satisfied just because they lend their ears for you.
And this is the one of the good thing of boys. Boy best friends are more caring than girl best friends. You could feel that they really care about you. They don't slap you with harsh words but instead they are speaking in actions. You can feel protection because they are really protective. I know the feeling because I have boy best friends and whenever I'm in trouble or anything, they will do anything in order to solve or help you.
Girls prefer to be friends with boys because they are comfortable to be with them. You feel that you can trust them and you know that they will never betray you or anything. Even though they're not giving you some advices when you have problems, you can still feel the comfort. You could feel the love you want, even if you are not in a relationship.
Best friends are just best friends. Don't go beyond that because it will not be true friendship anymore. It will be a disappointment for a girl if their boy best friend will be confessing their TRUE FEELINGS (I mean the development of what they feel) . Girls will think that they're using their friendship to get close to them and that's disappointing.
And before I end this post, I'll leave you a quote:
"Friendship ends in love, but love in friendship never ends."
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ReplyDeleteIt's better if you dont have BESTFRIENDS because it's seriously like youre "RANKING" your friends and of course, your other friends will feel jealous because you are calling him your "BESTFRIEND" and the other just your "FRIEND".
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